What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

If freedom of speech is absolute, how come it's not applied for private spaces and for the Internet?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

Are there legal obligations to report the known whereabouts of a missing person that doesn’t want to be found?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

Do you have any problem dating a younger man?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

Why is my stomach getting so big from taking testosterone cypionate 31 to 34 in 2 months?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

How does it feel to have sex with a 40 year old curvy aunty?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

Why is Donald Trump criticized by so many people?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

Is homosexuality an excommunicable offense in Christianity?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

*** Questions About Me ***

The Ice Breaker Questions

Apple’s Upgrades to CarPlay, iPad and Vision Pro Outshine Liquid Glass - Bloomberg.com

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

Does meth make women super horny like it does men?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

If you cloned 12 Michael Jordan's and 12 LeBron James' and had Team Jordan vs. James, which team would win the most games?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

If yes, what?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

29- How superstitious are you?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

Please share Did you stop?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

Any that are a turn off?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

Any that are a turn off?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

*** Random Questions ***

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

How old are you? Male or Female?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

Nothing too Serious

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

Do you think this brought you closer together?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

Would you read them together?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

What is your favorite position? Why?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

Family Relation Age Play

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

39~ What are your love languages?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

If you win, what will you make them do?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

52~ What are your hobbies?

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?